It can be said that every proceeding
concept of an ideal man has fallen short of grasping the whole meaning of the
idea. There are two obvious reasons why
it is hard to convey what exactly an ideal man is: first the concept is very
broad, and second because the concept may lose traction when crossing cultural
lines. This incarnation of the concept
will probably be no exception. Universal
ideas of what an archetypical man is may be studied, but still fall short when
matched with certain cultures that may not accept some or most of the
concept. The goal here is to simply lay
ground to a universally specific concept, so any aspiring gentleman may look to
undertake the project himself by aspiring to become ideal, no matter his
background of individual perspective.
Before considering the individual
characteristics an ideal man may possess, knowing the importance of such study
must first lay the groundwork. Knowing
the reasons why will go a long way in providing motivation for men who
undertake this life project. The
importance of such study rests in not the individual man, but on the collective
body of humanity. Society and the world
can always use one more righteous inhabitant.
A goal that is generally universal to every person is to live in
happiness. To ensure the collective
happiness of people, individuals must work for the collective good. This task begins with men, who have always
been tasked with protective and provisionary duties.
What makes this study even more
important is the age in which men now find themselves. Public principles of equality and freedom are
frequently addressed but are still never completely met in American society. One could argue the reasons, but the issues
that have once plagued past times continue to plague this one. To deny this would be to remain blind. Collective change is needed, and it starts
with the individual.
(Before
proceeding further, let it be known that these writings address men, are
written by a man, who studies both humanity and nature. But women may find some useful information
the same way a man might. Let it be
known that these writings are in no way sexist – despite being gender
specific. The writing is so in response
to the lack of manly qualities demonstrated by modern time and seeks to address
the issues by targeting a direct audience.)
Perspective
The
most powerful tool a man may wield is his brain and its capacity to
reason. The capacity to reason is quite
obviously a major factor in the rise of humanity as a dominant species. Reason enables man to rise above his
primitive past, and elevates him to better circumstances. That is the way in which society has
progressed, and that is how its growth must come. Before considering what it takes to become
ideal, one must first adopt the added perspective that disciplined reasoning is
the key to personal growth. In short,
the process of becoming a version of the ideal man cannot adequately begin or
finish if the right perspective qualities are not adopted.
One
need not change perspective in order to adopt this idea. Since individuals are limited in their
perceptions of the world to only their own unique perspective, the proper thing
to do is to keep the individual perspective while adding to it with a new
idea. This new idea should be the method
of disciplined reasoning. Always
consider new data, but never commit to its adoption into individual perspective
without running it through reason. Allow
reason to be the filter in which all things are to be run through. Keeping an open mind, while remaining
skeptical, provides an added safeguard against defective thoughts. Only the individuals may decide what is added
to their own unique perspective.
While
adding reasoned additions to an individual perspective, it’s important to consider
corruption. Corruption of the mind is
why reason must be in place to filter.
Corruption happens when the individual stops considering his own
thoughts but blindly adopts the ideas of others. It is perhaps easiest to think of this as
similar to how a good court judge considers his judgments without being
influenced by anything but written law.
An ideal man would never allow his mind to become corrupted by someone
else. An ideal man would not even
corrupt himself with too much or too hard of thought.
The
reasoning against corruption of the mind is quite simple, to guard against
biased or prejudicial ideas. There is
arguably no larger threat to reasoned thinking than a bias. Harboring a biased belief suggests emotions
(not reason) are at the helm of thought.
Prejudicial beliefs are no different, because leaning to any particular
side of an argument by anything other than logic is detrimental to mental
purity. One may keep individual
perspective in-check, but its impossible to do so for others who may not be as
disciplined. One must constantly be aware
of outside influences on individual position.
Conclusion
After understanding these first two
considerations, its necessary to close with a few notable points. First, in order for a man to become a better
version of himself, he must truly want to be better. Better, as in the sense of more righteous,
more correct in moral and ethical behavior.
Also, a man need not change his personality (unless his personality is
geared towards the destructive ends of others) but merely mend his habits. This mending need not be sterile of
pleasure. The process towards becoming
more like an ideal man should provide satisfaction in knowing such improvement makes
a man more desirable to the world. Others
should immediately appreciate the efforts of becoming a more valuable person to
society. However, it’s most important to
remember that the pursuit of becoming more ideal a man should be motivated by
nothing other than the need to do well to others.
Let that need fuel the progress.
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